I am single and it's a choice.

A common core belief is that in order to be complete you must share your life with a partner. Most single people have a longing to be with a partner, since that is the only narrative that we have heard . The beautiful thing is we can change this narrative in your mind and you would be able to be a happy single.

So stop feeling ashamed and guilty to be alone. This is how? Shift your inner conversation from thinking that something is wrong with you (i.e. commitment issues) and start thinking that it is your choice to be on your own, to enjoy the experience of being single and live this way.

Being single is a lifestyle you choose and where you can still able to create what human beings need to thrive -intimacy, connection and sexual bonding- just in another form. Having an intimate network, where you can share and experience all of these needs with several people, will make your life as a single person fully nourished. That doesn’t mean you are a slut, you are just covering your needs.

Understand that getting married is a choice.Having a partner is a choice. Being single is a choice. There is nothing wrong with choosing this lifestyle.

Being single gives you the possibility for self growth, adventure and freedom you might not have in a committed relationship. You have more time to focus on yourself and the life you are creating.

So be free, be you and love being single!