Don't ever do this when you flirt

Let's accept it, all of us have made huge mistakes when it comes to flirting. Some people just have terrible courtship practices, that you could even write books about them, and in fact, they have been written! We provide you with some things that you should NEVER do when flirting.

Never make a negative comment about how the person looks or is. When someone has very low self-esteem, this can work as a way to guide the other person to improvement, and it is a cruel form of manipulation, putting yourself above them. Just don’t it.

In the same way, do not speak as a victim. Posing as a "poor creature for help" is even more pitiful and sincerely unpleasant.

Don't make fun of someone else. You won't become more for doing someone less.

Never use the money you make as a dating card. If you want to show that you have a lot, you can leave a good tip or be generous with someone else.

If someone is turning you off, don't insist. That is harassment.

Although eye contact is important, don't stare into each other's eyes all the time.

Don't take a sentence out of a movie. Just have a casual conversation.

Don't evade personal space too much, keep a distance that feels nice. In some places it is complex, but make the effort to be aware of not being on top of the other.

Don't go straight to sexual touch. Especially touching legs, neck, lower back or shoulders are control signals and many wake up an alarm signal that makes us unsafe.

Don't assume anything about the other person. If you want to know if someone has an interest in you , ask them. Not all men or all women have the same tastes.

At the same point as above, don't hold onto passionately talking about a topic, especially about yourself.

Don’t flirt online or by message without having requested consent from the person previously. You have to be very careful with this. Being direct can even cause fear. It is better to ask for consent before you get your sexting going.

If they gives you their social network, don't stalk them. You probably dismiss  anyone like that. 

Don't send 10 messages to them or to the cell phone. A simple greeting with a good wish is enough. Don’t be needy.

Everyone likes a person with a good sense of humor, but don't try to be too funny. "Clowns" can also be unpleasant.

The archetype of the "brave macho" and that of the "untouchable lady" are out of fashion. Don't try to be what you are not.

The most important thing. Don't take rejection personally. You may just not like that person or viceversa. It is not a big deal.