I do not know a person who doesn’t talk about sex. Either they sneak in with a confidant, with friends, or even strangers. The funny thing is that we talk about sex with everyone except who we need to talk with: our partner or lover.
I see sex as food, a basic necessity that most humans enjoy as much as a good dessert or stew. But why is it so difficult for us to tell our partner what we want, what bothers us and the sexual fantasies that live in our minds?
Because talking about sex without sex gives us a feeling of well-being in our mind and body, and talking about sex with the person we have sex causes an absolute vulnerability that few are willing to face.
Talking about sex is healthy, expansive, fun and good for our mental health. We don’t want to leave this feeling outside our parternship. Bring this idea with your partner or lover and see how it goes. Allow this conversation to release your taboos, fears and shame that have been imposed by society, your parents and your religion.
Sex is the most natural thing in the world. I just give you some advice! If you talk about sex try not to name the person with whom you enjoy this moment, especially in this society where people don’t know what is called discretion!
I leave you with this song "Let's talk about sex”